The Adventures of Dating and Writing:

A memoir explores a part of a life

Four years ago I began writing a memoir. It covered my early forced marriage, it’s breakup and loss of my children. Then, working as a bus conductor, not my ideal job, but it paid the bills. When I began writing I’d no idea how long it would take or how cathartic it would be. This week I finally wrote “ The End”.

Of course, it’s not the end at all. The work must be edited, proofread and sent to beta readers. While the book has grown, so has my understanding of my life, finally allowing for self-compassion.

Like most writers, I’m an avid reader and my reading has continued. For balance I’ve chosen to read books on the lighter side for now.

My dating life continued too with The Aussie Bloke. We went to see Jean Valjean; the movie. Part of a French Film Festival Its based on Victor Hugo’s Les Miserable with Gregory Gadebois as Jean. A deep character study and exploration of degradation, atonement and forgiveness.    

In contrast the following week Aussie Bloke brought his dogs, who are generally well behaved and attentive to him, to my place.  Henceforth known  by me as the “Hellhounds” .

Hellhounds by Boy Employee on Pixabay.

The dogs bark annoying his neighbours if left alone too long. We went to dinner, came back and settled the dogs. As I have a cat they can’t have full household access. They were allowed into the back garden and the garden room. At some time, one or both , began digging in the grass. The excavation was quite extensive. Aussie Bloke  offered to fill it,  but I foolishly said it was ok. Two days later I’d almost filled “the pit”. Dating has certainly adding excitement and variety to my life.

They really are good dogs they just got bored!

The Payback Plan by Amy Andrews.

The Karma Club 1 .

Introducing The Payback Plan, the first installment in this gorgeously spicy series The Karma Club…where just desserts are best served shared! Karma’s here to stay!

When fate strands Paige Parker at O’Hare airport during a snow storm little does she know her misfortune is the beginning of a wild and life-changing adventure. Because when she meets three complete strangers, they quickly bond over shared tales of betrayal and heartbreak. And just for fun, they concoct a scheme to exact sweet revenge on their exes!

Except when the plan becomes a reality, Paige finds herself in Cornwall with Olly Prendergast. Son of a movie star, grumpy recluse and responsible for jilting his fiancé on their wedding day with a text message. The payback plan has begun! Step one: move into his spare room and disrupt his peace and quiet. Step two: bring a pet hamster, adopt a dog and let chaos run loose. Step Three: unapologetically make a mess in his pristine house at every opportunity. Step 4: Show Mr Grumpy what fun looks like!

But Paige is unprepared when the plan begins to backfire and she starts to see the man behind the reputation. And when she can’t ignore their undeniable chemistry anymore Paige has to battle with the secret she’s been keeping from Olly and loyalty to her friend and The Karma Club…

Romance. Rom Com. Audiobook. Contemporary Fiction. Humour. 317 pages, Kindle Edition

My Review.

It starts with an impulsive promise, one that would never have happened if the women hadn’t got stuck at O’Hare airport. At first, Paige is hell bent on getting revenge , but as she gets to know Olly better, she finds herself drawn to him. He is nothing like she imagined. Some genuinely laugh out loud moments. Hot sexual chemistry and a couple who are perfect for each other,  if only they will see it.

The Grimoire Grammar School Parent Teacher Association by Caitlin Rozakis.

Two parents and their recently-bitten-werewolf daughter try to fit into a privileged New England society of magic aristocracy. But deadly terrors await them – ancient prophecies, remorseless magical trials, hidden conspiracies and the PTA bake sale

When Vivian’s kindergartner, Aria, gets bitten by a werewolf, she is rapidly inducted into the hidden community of magical schools. Reeling from their sudden move, Vivian finds herself having to pick the right sacrificial dagger for Aria, keep stocked up on chew toys and play PTA politics with sirens and chthonic nymphs and people who literally can set her hair on fire.
As Vivian careens from hellhounds in the school corridors and demons at the talent show, she races to keep up with all the arcane secrets of her new society – shops only accessible by magic portal, the brutal Trials to enter high school, and the eternal inferno that is the parents’ WhatsApp group.

And looming over everything is a prophecy of doom that sounds suspiciously like it’s about Aria. Vivian might be facing the end of days, just as soon as she can get her daughter dressed and out of the door…

Fantasy Fiction. Adult Magic. Vampires. Cozy Fantasy. Urban Magic.

My Review.

The title and cover were promising so I gave this a go. I read to the end but it’s not my book. It may be yours. There are some fun moments,  but PTA politics overshadow much of the book. If I’d been paying more attention, it was clearly on the cover. So, a mismatch.

Tell Me Why by Sandi Wallace.

Georgie Harvey and John Franklin 1

WINNER 2015 DAVITT AWARD READERS’ CHOICE

What will they risk for answers?

Picturesque Daylesford has a darker side. Melbourne writer Georgie Harvey heads to the mineral springs region in central Victoria to look for a missing farmer, and soon links the woman’s disappearance with the unsolved mystery surrounding her husband.

Meanwhile, maverick police officer and solo dad John Franklin is working a case that’s a step up from Daylesford’s usual soft crime: a stalker targeting single mothers.

Georgie’s investigation stirs up long-buried secrets, and attracts enemies. When she reports the missing person to local cops, sparks fly between her and Franklin.

Has he dismissed the writer too quickly? And what will the truth cost?

Mystery Crime. eBooks. Fiction Suspense. Australia

452 pages, Kindle Edition First published September 1, 2014

My Review.

Sandi Wallace’s books have been on my mental “to read” list for ages, but this is the first that I’ve read. It made sense to go back to the beginning of her popular Georgie Harvey and John Franklin series. An intriguing set up and a genuine small-town feel. Neighbours looking out for neighbours and a disappearance that intrigues Melbourne based  Georgie. A puzzle solved but the spark of a new relationship has left me thinking I must read book 2.

Risky Business by Amy Andrews

From bestselling author Amy Andrews comes a new single-title romance about putting pleasure before business, and the risks we all need to take when we find someone worth risking everything for.

Samantha Evans’s life is going to hell. Not only has she rage-quit her beloved, high-powered job, but she is suddenly afflicted by hormones, free time, and an unavoidable, unignorable, undeniably gorgeous irritant in the form of Nick Hawke, her extreme sports star neighbour, who has come home to take over the reins of his grandmother’s second-hand bookshop. Sam needs something to keep her from begging for her old job back until she’s good and sure her boss understands how wrong he was, and taking a low-risk, low-stress job helping Nick at the bookstore might be just the thing.

After all, it’s not like Nick is the right guy to help her with her hormones. He’ll just be fun to look at while she searches for the one.

Nick has six months to get over an injury before Everest and a big, fat contract beckon. That means no sports, no danger and, above all else, no risks. It means playing it safe. And Nick Hawke doesn’t do safe. So he’s going to need something to stave off the boredom while selling books he doesn’t read to people who wouldn’t know a carabineer from a crochet hook. What could be safer than hiring a cranky, unemployed accountant to help run the bookstore? Sam is efficient and methodical and messing up her neat, post-it note world could be a fun way to pass the time….

Risky Business mixes the classic romance of Philadelphia Story, the humour and wit of When Harry Met Sally, and a strong, contemporary Australian setting to create a delightful, irresistible, utterly satisfying treat of a novel.

Romance. Contemporary Romance. Humour. 257 pages, eBook First published July 1, 2014

My Review.

A total romp of a book, with sparkling dialogue, and sexual tension that rolls off the page. It’s funny , witty , sexy and relatable because high powered exec Samantha (size 14) is convinced she is fat and beyond hope. Meanwhile, she sees gorgeous Nick with a posse of young anorexic types and is convinced that is what he wants. Sam’s hormones though want action, a baby daddy and fast. Nick helpfully sets Sam up with supposedly “suitable ” men. But no one is right. Meanwhile, totally unsuitable Nick could be just what she needs -if she lets her heart rule her head. Nick has to convince her that she is gorgeous and what he wants too.

For now I’m editing and hoping to get the work to beta readers.

 The book is written, but I have more work to do. Editing, getting rid of repetition, reading for clarity. Preparing questions for the beta readers. Recontacting the cover designer and talking to the editor.

Sadly, the Aussie Bloke and his “hellhounds” have departed my story. I am sad to see them go. It was good while it lasted. I’ll miss them and will always think of them fondly. Dating him and meeting them, has contributed to my growth, but life  goes on and I have books to read and write and other adventures to experience.

Until next time

 

Chatting with Lisa Stanbridge, about Lonely in Paris.

It’s a pleasure to welcome author Lisa Stanbridge to talk about her new book, Lonely in Paris. Lisa recently placed third in the Romance Writers of Australia, Sweet Treats contest. This is a highly prestigious award and it attracts many, many entries. Congratulations Lisa!

Lisa Stanbridge, author of Lonely in Paris.

Some getting-to-know-you questions.

Late nights or early mornings? Late nights all the way. My imagination comes alive at night and that’s when I do my best writing. Unfortunately, I also have a full-time job so late nights are not a good idea as I always wake up tired.

What’s for breakfast? Bacon, eggs and hashbrowns. Yum!

Night out or Netflix? Netflix for sure, I’m such a homebody.

G &T or Tea/Coffee? I like tea and coffee, but I’ll always choose coffee first.

Perfect weekend? A weekend at home with hubby, relaxing, writing, watching movies or playing games.

What did you want to be when you grew up? An author! It’s nice to be able to check that off.

What is for dinner tonight? Can you cook? What would you rather be eating? I can cook and do enjoy it, but tonight we’re having spaghetti bolognaise which hubby is cooking!

What brings you joy? Lifts your spirits, and chases away a down mood. Going to the beach. Not to swim, but to walk along the sand. There’s nothing quite like the ocean breeze washing away the worries of the day.

Nothing like a dose of Vitamin Sea.

Your hero? A family friend named Barry. He’d have to be in his 80’s now and I haven’t seen him for years, but he ‘saved’ me twice in my life and I’ll never forget him. The first time was when I was at a wedding and I was probably about 12 years old. I didn’t have anyone to dance with and I desperately wanted to, but he came up and gave me my first dance. I was flying high for the rest of the night!

The second time was about a year later when my Nana died. I loved her so much and I was absolutely devastated. At her funeral, I wasn’t allowed to sit in the front row with my family and instead had to sit by myself in the row behind. There were some other people around me, but no one I knew. I couldn’t stop crying throughout the whole funeral but I had no one to comfort me…until Barry came up and held me while I cried. He is truly my hero.

You don’t have to be a superhero to change someone’s life

Do you have any non-writing-related interests? Is reading considered a writing-related interest? Because I love reading but always struggle to find enough time to do so. I also love gaming, the relaxing type. Animal Crossing, House Flipper, Stardew Valley, and Pokémon…just to name a few.

What would surprise people to know about you? I used to dance when I was younger. All types of dance—tap, highland, jazz, Irish, and ballroom. Never professionally, but I danced for a good few years in my teens. Sadly, I never kept it up.

Life lessons-what do you wish you’d known earlier? That adulthood is hard!

Let’s talk about your new  book Lonely in Paris which was released, today 16th January 2023

Lonely in Paris is a bit of a passion project. Ever since I visited Paris a few years ago I’ve wanted to write a story set there. I did try writing one about three years ago but I wasn’t happy with it so it went into the ‘maybe’ pile.

Then I decided to join a Paris anthology and I wrote a new story, which is how Lonely in Paris was born. I knew it would work better as romantic comedy/chick lit and so that’s what I did, and it pretty much wrote itself. It’s a fun, light-hearted romantic comedy with some serious aspects because you can’t have romance without a little uncertainty.

The eBook is available from the 16th of January and will be Amazon exclusive. Anyone can purchase it from Amazon, but anyone with a Kindle Unlimited subscription can read it for free. A paperback will be available wide but will be delayed by a couple of weeks.

Tell us about it.

Jane’s #1 rule in Paris: Don’t fall in love

After ending a disastrous relationship, Jane accepts a job in the City of Love. The trouble is she speaks very little French, has no friends to enjoy Paris with, and she’s awfully lonely.

Then she meets Jacques DuPont.

Rich, handsome, and the cream of the Parisian crop, Jacques is living the dream. Just not his own. His father wants him to follow in his footsteps, but Jacques wants to earn his success. Trapped in a life chosen by his family, he’s always been alone.

Until he meets Jane.

He’s from money. She’s not.
He’s a planner. She’s impulsive.
He’s serious. She’s definitely not.

They couldn’t be more different, but they will fall. Hard.

Together Jane and Jacques will learn why Paris is the City of Love. But when an expiring visa, a jealous colleague, and a manipulative family threaten their fledgling relationship, their loyalties will be tested to breaking point.

Jane broke her #1 rule, now they must decide what they are willing to sacrifice for love.

Who wouldn’t love Paris?

Are you writing anything else?

 Lonely in Paris is book 1 in a 3-book series

Confession: Lonely in Paris was meant to be a standalone, but as I wrote it and the characters grew, I just knew it could be a series. Rather than having different characters in the other 2 books, they’ll instead feature Jane and Jacques during their evolving relationship and the many blips along the way. Book 2 is scheduled to be released on 16th May 2023 (pre-orders will be available when Lonely in Paris is released). Book 3 I’m aiming to release on 16th September, but that date isn’t set in concrete yet. I’ll see how much progress I make on it when I release book 2.

The Louvre, Paris.

Questions about Writing.

What is your writing process like? Like my current manuscript…a work in progress. It’s an area I’m still trying to perfect. Juggling writing and working full time is something I still haven’t got right.

Do you have any other projects are in the works? So many, my mind is full of ideas and future series. As I mentioned above, I’m working on books 2 and 3 of this series. I’m also editing manuscripts I finished a few years ago that I plan to publish in 2024.

Have you ever resuscitated a project you’d shelved? What helped it work better the second time around? My debut novel, Abandoned Hearts (published in 2020), was a resuscitated project. It took me 6 years from start to publication because I just couldn’t get it right and I kept sitting on it. In that 6 years, I worked on my writing, perfected my voice, learnt and learnt and learnt, until I finally I got it right.

Writers never know when an idea will strike!

What do you know now that you wish you’d known at the beginning of your writing/publishing journey? Drafts don’t have to be perfect. I often expected perfection first go and sometimes even led myself to believe my first draft was perfect even though it was far from it. There’s nothing wrong with a dirty draft where you just spill the words on the page and then go back and fix it later. I’ve started doing that recently and it’s such a great feeling. The words flow better without the pressure of getting everything right.

What is the most difficult part about writing for you? Actually getting it down on paper. I get the idea in my head and it all sounds so amazing, but then it comes to writing it and I really struggle sometimes. Since I’ve started writing dirty drafts though, it’s made this a little easier.

Did you do any research for your current book? Yes, because it’s been a long time since I went to Paris, so I needed to make sure what I remembered was still relevant (and in some cases, it wasn’t). I also had to make sure I got the French translations correct.

Do you have a favourite character that you have written? If so, who? And what makes them so special? Oh, this is hard, as I have many. 🙂 Michael and Claire in Abandoned Hearts are close firsts, as is Jacques in Lonely in Paris. But there’s also Hamish in my unpublished manuscript, The Final Masquerade, and Gavin in another unpublished manuscript (planned for 2024 release) Oceans Apart. How do I choose?

Do you think someone could be a writer if they don’t feel emotions? I think anyone can be a writer, but if someone doesn’t feel emotions it’s going to be a lot harder for them. But since I’m an over-emotional person, I can’t even comprehend not feeling emotions.

Best money you have spent as a writer? Purchasing Atticus to format my manuscripts and paying an editor to get my manuscript up to scratch.

Do you have a favourite author and why? I’ve got many, but my top two would be Katie Fforde and Sophie Kinsella. They were instrumental in helping me find my writing style and voice.

What are you reading now? Let it Snow by Beth Moran

What books or authors have most influenced your writing? Ha, see above!

What favourite book/story you have read as an adult? It’ll always be Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen. I agree and the BBC 1995 Adaptation With Colin Firth and Jennifer Ehle is about as perfect as you could get.

What favourite book/story you have read as a child? The Tin Can Puppy by Wendy Orr and Brian Kogler

Thank you so much for talking with us and good luck with Lonely In Paris.

I was fortunate enough to receive an advance copy of Lonely in Paris and have posted a review on Good Reads and in last month’s blog post.

Buy link for Lonely in Paris: https://books2read.com/LonelyinParis

Buy link for Abandoned Hearts: https://books2read.com/AbandonedHearts

Excitement and Drama in the Life of a Writer.

 October 15th2022 was an exciting day after a frustrating week.

Imagine you have spent ages writing and rewriting a story until finally, it’s ready to be published. Your story with eight others is going to be part of a new anthology of steamy romance. You are all excited about the book launch.

The date is set, the pre-orders organised and all you and the eight other writers have to do is sit and wait for the book to launch.

One week to go and there is a glitch. The group moderator who had been tweaking details on one of her other books was locked out of the Amazon account. No one else could act.

it couldn’t be happening.

Sexy Scandals of Swain Cove disappeared and so did all those pre-orders. She was in daily contact with Amazon, and we were all in daily despair.

Finally, yesterday after the tensest week ever it was reinstated.

Available on Amazon.

In celebration, Sexy Secrets of Swain Cove will remain at 99cents for now.

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