The Contradictions of Being a Writer.

Many of the writers I know are a mass of contradictions, it left me wondering if this was an important part of a writer’s personality.

Writing can be an isolating occupation

The majority admit to being Shy or even Not Very Social and then they go out a give a presentation or an author talk or if you meet them at a writers’ convention and can’t get them to shut up! The lonely Introvert turns into a Show Pony. I myself know I  am guilty of this.

Conventions bring a mix of people together.

A  majority of writers suffer from Self-doubt and Insecurity.  Along with other creative types, many will admit to suffering from Imposter Syndrome. At times this manifests as a bout of  Crippling Insecurity with the fear of not being good enough accomplished enough. talented enough.

In spite of that, most managed to overcome it and submit their work to a critique partner, or even a contest or publisher.  If the work is accepted, after the initial rush of pride or satisfaction, it’s likely that self-doubt will surface once again.  Yet some compulsion drives us on, to write more, to try again to try and fail, to try and succeed, to improve.

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Courage to follow your dream

So what my fellow writers also have is courage, the courage to express themselves. To let their work speak for them, to expose their ideas to the judgement of others. My fellow writers, I  salute you for your bravery!

 

 

 

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Author: soniabellhouse

Sonia Bellhouse loves writing and reading stories with a ‘happily ever after ’ending. She believes we all need love in our lives.Contributor to The Regent's Menagerie, The Regency Abduction Club, Sexy Scandals at Swain Cove and Writing the Dream.Author of the contemporary and Viking romance Fire& Ice. Speaker, reader, dreamer. Visit Sonia Bellhouse's Chatting with Authors. https://www.facebook.com/soniabellhouse.author/ Or her Chatting with Authors page https://www.facebook.com/groups/1031642857187598

6 thoughts on “The Contradictions of Being a Writer.”

    1. Thanks, Fiona. I am quaking slightly as I just got an advance copy of the flyer for my first ever author talk. Summoning up the courage to announce it. May we writers support and cheer each other on, no-one knows the pains of failure and the highs of success like another writer. Wishing you good writing! xx

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  1. Yes, I am as you describe Sonia. Full of contradictions, but that’s part of the journey of being a writer. Moving from quiet time and introversion to standing up and being noticed because we have something to say. Love the writers life!

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    1. Thanks for commenting Josh! I have been thinking that we grow into our writer persona- baby step by baby step. Until one day we look back and realise the journey that we have undertaken!

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